It is considered a well-known fact that men are much simpler than women and their desires are very limited. So much so, they are happy with food and sex! Convenient, isn’t it? Well, you are completely wrong my friend! Actually, men are the most underrated in terms of emotions. It is true that the sexual urges are more in men as compared to women, but it is not at all true that men do not want anything else. When it comes to companionship, partnership and family orientation men are equally reliable as women.
If you talk to 100 women, be assured at least 90% of them will say that men only want sex in bed. It sounds pretty simple and straightforward, but unfortunately, it is wrong. Men want a partner in bed. Someone they can trust and cherish the moments with. It is true that they like to be wild and horny in bed. It is also true that they consider being with sexy women rather than spending the night alone in bed. Still, it is not true that the intimate time with the partner can only be about sex. The life is not easy and works load breaks down every person. The emotional need of a man is at its peak at the end of the day. Only sex cannot fulfill those needs and desires. So, let’s find out what men want in bed. Shall we?
It is both relaxing and sensual and loved by almost every man. Interestingly, it works both ways as well! When you are in bed with a man, it is not necessary to jump into the action immediately. Offer him a massage. Rest his head on your lap while sitting or on your stomach while standing. A head massage or a full body massage will relax him and make him more attentive towards your needs too. You will see the glowing love in his eyes within minutes.
It is not a secret that a woman in sexy lingerie will definitely be able to attract his man in the bed. It is more than something sexual. It is about the arousing and getting closer to each other. You will be amazed to see how attentive he will get while seeing you in a sexy dress. It is up to you if you want to take it to the next level or want to keep things to the certain limit. Foreplay and cuddling in sexy lingerie are always good for emotional bonding.
Wild intimate moments
Soft intimate relationships are common and considered best by both men and women. However, there is no harm in getting little rough or very kinky once in a while. Tear off some clothes, get wild and ride until his brains pop out of excitement. It will not be a bad deal and the memory of that particular session will keep you both alive and close for quite some time. You can also tie each other up, have a role play session or even plan something kinky for special days.
Not liked by all men, but by most of them. Talking dirty while being intimate is enjoyed by most of the couples. Some may hesitate in the beginning, but on later stages when they are open to each other, dirty talking can actually sex up the things to another level. Let him know that you want him more, harder and closer. Tell him to go deep and strong. Moan like a wild lady and show some aggressive moves as well. Tell him what you want to do to him or what you want him to do to you!
The missionary position is good, in fact, it is the most effective way to get pregnant, but how far is it correct to leave every intimate session completely at the mercy of the man? You should learn to take control as well. Let me tell you a secret. If you take control once in a while or even more often, your man will love and respect you more. Why you may ask. Well, the thing is men want to have a partner who knows what she is doing and how she should do it. It is not a healthy relationship if he has to do all the work and you just lie down all the time like a doll. Be human and take control over him. Show him you can be as strong as he can and ride wild.
Surprise with a new position
There are so many positions you can try and that too in so many angles. Some your bodies will allow to do and some may not. It is very easy to figure out which positions you both can be in easily. Initiate a new position once in a while and surprise him with your dedication towards lovemaking. Tell him how much his presence means to you and how desperately you want him close. Take control or let him take control of the position. Enjoy the moments and kiss passionately. There is no harm in trying new things in life and in case one of you do not like what you tried, simply put it in a “Not again” list! At least try!
Eat off the fudge!
Some couples may find it dirty and (don’t know why) unhealthy in a relationship but you should try it once. Take some fudge, ice cream, marshmallow, chocolate mousse or chocolate sauce, spread it on your partner and just eat it. It works both ways and the end result will be satisfactory and too alluring. Such fun acts bring you closer to your man and you both will feel comfortable around each other.
Let him feel you
Not sure why, but some women shy away from allowing their partners to feel the curves. It is an important part of the foreplay session and it gives the man feel of the ownership of your body. There is nothing unhealthy in it and when he feels you, the moans will automatically increase the erotic energy in the room. The closeness and love making session will be much better and deeper.
There are many moments in life when you both just need to lie on the bed and talk. There are a lot of things that happen during the work hours. Let him tell you all the frustrating things that have happened. Listen closely and try to calm him down. Let him be as emotional as he wants to be. Do not let him hold back or not talk to you. Get close and tell him that you are always there for him. This will create an emotional bond between you two and the relationship will last longer than you can ever expect.
Let him watch you get naughty
If you have the potential to do it in front of him, nothing is more arousing and more satisfying. Visual stimulations do wonders with men. They love when women are open and bold. Doing it right in front of him shows how much you trust him. If you really want him to go crazy for you, do not let him touch you or kiss you during the session. Just keep going and watch him go mad for you.
How often do you seduce him? Try more. Drop hints in front of him in innovative ways. Go and wet yourself in a sexy dress and stand in front of him while he is watching TV in bed for a few seconds. Remind him of the positions you like or what you like to hear. Leave a piece of your lingerie on his bedside once a while. Hug him from behind and move away. All these small acts will bring him closer to you in bed and he actually loves it!
Praise your man
Once the session is over, do not just go to sleep. Tell him how much you love him and how amazing he was during the session. Praise him and tell him how he means to you.
Live a fantasy
Again, this works the both ways. Ask him about his fantasies about the love making and try to replicate them in real life. Find a sexy dress from his favorite movie or dress like his favorite actress. Bring life to the sessions and get his attention in no time. He will love your enthusiasm and will always be loyal to you.
Being spontaneous and full of love is very important in a relationship. The time you both are going to spend on the bed is the maximum time you are going to spend together. Between the busy work life and responsibilities at home do not leave much room to get together outside the bedroom. It is very important to understand your man from inside and outside. What he likes and what he does not will make a huge difference in your relationship. How kinky he likes to get or how dirty he likes to hear can determine how aggressive you can get with him. Life is full of moments of happiness and you can turn the tables in your favor by understanding him a little better.