You may think it’s the most difficult situation to be in to try to get your ex-boyfriend back if he already has another girlfriend already. I cannot stress how wrong this presumption is! Your ex probably has his new girlfriend now out of a “rebound” thing; so really, it is now much easier to get him back. However, you should be wary of the fact that the rebound relationship may stick if you let it live long enough, so you have to do a couple of things as soon as possible to stop the new relationship from blossoming into a permanent one.
The main theme about the sets of advice I’ll give you today is simple: remain unaffected by this new circumstance that’s happening in your ex-boyfriend’s life. This is how you can demonstrate that your ex is powerless over your emotions, making you in-charge of the situation. After that, there will come a period where your ex will become disillusioned in his new relationship, and he will run back to you. The question is, what are you gonna do to ensure that this is what’s going to happen? Here is what you can do to get him back as quickly as possible:
Don’t appear needy and desperate.
Neediness and desperation are two of the most important words to remember at this phase, because if you become needy and desperate, your ex-boyfriend will definitely be turned off, and will become more convinced that he made the right decision to break up with you. Just appear strong and confident, as if the breakup was a minor stumbling block that has nothing to do with your future. You can do this by refraining from talking about the breakup, refraining from seeing him whenever possible, refraining from communicating from him and focusing your energies on other things like work and/or school.
After one month of his new relationship, start being friends with him.
This is not necessarily the time frame to follow, but this is when a lot of relationship complications start taking place. You should start communicating with him again, as a confidante, as a friend. The secret is in the subtlety of keeping in touch. You should permit yourself to become close to him again but not to the extent where he’ll clearly know that you are still attracted to him. Just befriend him without malice so that whenever problems arise between him and his new girlfriend, he can easily run to you for advice.
Go flirt with other boys!
Men are naturally jealous creatures, and you should take advantage of that fact to get him back. If you are ever around him, make sure that there are other boys to flirt around with. This will make your man see that a lot of boys are interested in you and this will immediately look like a great catch for them. Of course, you can’t just flirt without preparing yourself physically and mentally. You have to look great and feel great before you can successfully pull a “flirting” scene off. It will make you irresistible in your ex’s eyes.
Always remember that your ex is not worth stopping your life for.
Just remember that once you learn how to move on and leave your ex-boyfriend where he is right now, he will learn to see you as a person that is worth looking up for. Just have fun, go out with your girls, meet new boys, and once you get the dice rolling, your ex will start following your path. Trust me, this is how to get him back the easiest.
It’s normal for men to seek another woman immediately after a breakup, because they’re most prone to painful rebound situations. In trying to get him back, therefore, you should proceed with caution and accuracy. If you really want to know how it is done the RIGHT way, I recommend for you to read Youtuber Ashley Kay’s the Ex Recovery System. It is an amazing eBook that tackles situations such as these, getting examples from real-life affairs, interpreting them in a psychosocial angle that’s very easy to read.
In the eBook is a complete step-by-step blueprint on how you can get your ex boyfriend again without having to pressure him or his new relationship. Most women make the mistake of confronting the new girl immediately without thinking it through, and the Ex Recovery System has devised ways to avoid such situations.
Really, if you want to proceed wisely in attempting to seize your boyfriend from another woman’s arms, the Ex Recovery System is the eBook you should read. It’s clear, simple, and straightforward, and is written by an honest Youtuber who has had extensive knowledge in relationships.