We have heard it said countless times that sex is the bedrock of any relationship. For this reason, couples spare no effort in ensuring they get a daily dose of this essential medicine in order to keep the flames of love burning for as long as reasonably possible.
However, there is no denying the fact that so many relationships go through different turbulences as a result of sexual deprivation. A couple, or either partner, may claim to be deprived sexually when a partner is simply not there to meet their sexual obligations. However, the most grievous form of this deprivation is the inability to cause your partner to cum. Truth be told, this problem is almost exclusively associated with men, which is why in this article, we shall discuss the 10 ways on how to make a girl/woman come.
Manipulate Her Psychology
Simply put, orgasms happen in the brain and as such, the first step to making your woman cum would be preparing her psychologically. This can be done from your own point of view or from hers as well. You may have certain physical flaws or there might be a negative train of thoughts racing through your mind.
This is not the time to let them have the better of you. Reassure yourself that you can do her real good and do not hesitate to let her know. In case the imperfections are on her, such as an unfavorable smell or a foul mood, it is your duty as the man to set her in the right mind frame for the intercourse. As you prepare her for the intercourse, remind her that you are really capable of making her give the screams and that by the time you are done with her, she will be desperately begging for a second ride.
Stimulate her Breasts
There is a great deal of sensual stimulation that a woman can get from the breasts that ultimately lead to her coming. As the man, you need to know that the secret does not only lie in the mere fact of caressing them, it all comes down to how you do it.
You may want to suck them a bit as long as you do not do it baby-style. Licking the breasts through her cleavage adds a great deal to the stimulation. Once wet, go on to rub them with your hands or chest until they become too tender for her to bear. You will naturally know this by the kind of submissive response she gives.
Concentrate on the Clit
A woman’s clitoris is the greatest contributor to her coming and men who understand that know exactly how to go about stimulating it. Just like the breasts, constantly licking the clit makes it tender and gives the woman an out-of-this-world experience, making her cum in a manner only she can explain.
The clit never lies and when it is stimulated, it will not hesitate to respond in short rhythmic beats like a deer panting for water. After you are done licking and the vaginal fluid is all over the place, rub it gently until it achieves a constant rhythm; your woman will never understand what really makes her feel the way she does.
Find and Capitalize on the G-Spot
The G-Spot is that area in the female genitalia accredited with giving the woman maximum sexual experience. This area is believed to contain certain nerve endings that all work in favor of making her achieve a great orgasm.
Perhaps what is most interesting is that there is no defined rule for hitting the G-Spot and it is more a matter of instinct than it is a matter of tact. This, therefore, means that as the man, you will need a certain amount of discretion in order to realize you are in your woman-s G-Spot. As you have an intercourse, it will come naturally as the response will automatically change when you hit this area. Once there, stay there for as long as possible and your woman will have an orgasm she has never experienced before.
Try to Manage Orgasm Gap
There is no doubt that there will be an orgasm gap between you and your woman. Naturally, men climax faster than women, and may even do it twice or thrice before the woman comes. In extreme cases, this may as well pass for premature ejaculation and as we all know, it slows down the intercourse as you have to wait for the penis to recover.
However, there are certain medications and exercises prescribed that add an extra amount of firmness to the base of the penis, making it stay erect longer. The longer the erection lasts, the more enjoyable the experienced and the more likely you are to make your woman cum.
Take Deep Breaths
Breathing deeply has a way of making your woman come and contrary to common perception, it should not be a preserve of women during sex. Deep, rhythmic breaths have a way of building anticipation. They make the coming process develop in a regular way as the woman literally follows the rhythm of your breaths.
It also creates the impression that you are really feeling her, making her to even savor the moment more. She will play along, making the experience last longer than usual and the only logical ending is that she will come harder than she has never done before.
Extend the Foreplay
Women love sex but they love it most when the foreplay lasts as long as possible for this really turns them on and gets them in the mood. Depending on how you understand your woman, foreplay could range from nibbling her necks to massaging her back, kissing her folds and so on.
The secret is to do it over and over again. Spread on her body and let your flesh feel hers. Spread her gently and whisper lots of sweet nothings in her ears. Basically, set her at ease and let her be ready for the encounter. You should remember that foreplay must not always lead to penetrative sex as when done carefully, your woman will come nearly as much as she would have done with vaginal intercourse, if not better.
Last but not least, many men do not understand that a great deal of women is concerned when you have a silent intercourse with them. Women naturally want men to say something, or at least nothing as long as they rumble some words that don’t really matter anyway.
If you want your woman to come in a way she never did before, try to be the moaning man. It may seem quite awkward but there should really not be any reasons for getting embarrassed. If you find moaning a little hard to come by, just say anything. Keep telling the woman the way you feel about her. Tell her that your only mission is to give her a come of a lifetime and keep rumbling for the entire duration of the intercourse.